• Me,  Moments

    Playing house

    Remember the house corner in first year Infants? A corner of the classroom which was divided from the rest of the classroom with a partition to give the third wall.  Open at the front and filled with infant sized furniture, equipment and dolls? My memory is of watching others play there, mainly girls putting dolls to bed, pretending to wash up and sending the boys who wanted to play with them on shopping errands for bread and milk.  They focused on fussing around with the baby, changing its clothes, showing it off and taking it for walks and in the interaction between those they had agreed to play house with. Playing in…

  • Elust,  Words

    Elust 85

    Elust 85 Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust 85 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #86 Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am so honoured to be one of the judges’ choices this month.  Particularly since this piece is raw and so hard to write. It feels worth the struggle to get it…

  • Sinful Sunday

    #SinfulSunday – touch

    ​ I am brushing up my masturbation skills after a long time reliance on my wand.  I love it, don’t get me wrong, but I feel myself reducing the process to a certain outcome and that feels at odds with my current desire to be exploratory. So. It’s back to the grindstone for me. Want to watch? ? Click on the lips below to see who else is having a #SinfulSunday

  • Sinful Sunday

    #SinfulSunday – lazy

    I am dogsitting four dogs this weekend and have already been up to see them this morning first time at 5.30 am and then again at 8.30. Climbing back into bed with a cup of tea and a good book feels sinful to me! How about you? Click on the lips below to see who else is taking part this week ?

  • Words

    The elusive cum – part one

    I think I must have spent most of my life edging. Or dead from the waist down. Given my twitter presence and this blog with its explicitly sexual content and pictures it may surprise you to know that being orgasmic is something that has eluded me for most of my life. As I drove home from work today, up the shady wooded hill roads and past the cows grazing on golden green grass at the roadside I was remembering, well half remembering, what it was like not to have had an orgasm in my life. It’s a conscious thought because that period extended from my childhood until my late twenties after the…

  • Sinful Sunday

    #Sinfulsunday – look up!

    It was a hot day, in all ways. Tied and suspended via a crotch rope attached to my hair my face was often contorted with the effort of managing the sensations. In this image some of the sheer fun of it all comes across though. The TOG – the peerless Paul Cruisier check him out on Fetlife – asked me to look up and snapped this moment of pleasure. Due to my policy of not showing my face I have had to blur the focus but I think you can still get the idea. I loved it. Credits Tog – Paul Cruisier – cruisier on FL Rigger -Nathan Zuberi –…