• Sinful Sunday

    #SinfulSunday – shimmering light

    You know that place you get to in arousal where lights begin to shimmer in front of your eyes and it feels as they are dancing both on and within you in an interplay with your nerve endings and finally you break and collapse into the waves of molten pleasure as they erupt from your very centre and cascade over you like an inevitable tide … ?  Tea? Click on the lips below to see who else is being sinful this Sunday ?

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    Why am I here – revisited

    This blog is a kind of journal, a place where I can post my thoughts as I make my way across the unknown seas of single life in my fifties.  It is my attempt to build and supply a sea-going vessel for myself that will sustain my journey.  I also plan to gather maps, make new friends and have life-expanding experiences along the way. Welcome to aboard SS Maiden Voyage shipmates. We’ll keep going ’til we spy land…. PS. My images and writing are often explicit and definitely NSFW or under 18s. Please use your own judgement about whether or not to continue to read.

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    Elust 93

    Elust 93 Photo courtesy of Aurora Glory Welcome to Elust 93– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #94 Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ A dress to die for Pushing Past Necessary.   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Kink lite, Kink life Disturbance   ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ The Contract My own…

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    I have been thinking a lot about sacrifice recently.  It’s Easter, so it’s timely, but in my own personal life it seems that I have reached the point where costs have to be counted in all senses. Those of you who read my blog will know some of my journey here to a house in a small market town near the Severn estuary and looking out over to the Forest and Beacons in the misty blue distance.  A long view has always helped me to generate a sense of a bigger perspective, the literal and physical informing the emotional and psychological and creating a sense of history in which to…

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    #SinfulSunday- Easter Chocolate

    It’s Easter synonymous with rabbits, eggs, and chocolate! Melted it is a smooth-running delight. Thickly plastered over breasts and nipples to provide a tasty mouthful. And since it’s Easter you get more than one picture. Enjoy! Don’t forget to click on the lips below to see who else is being sinful today ?  

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    #SinfulSunday – Anonymous 1

    This is a first for this blog. A guest post from an anonymous contributor for #SinfulSunday. This gorgeous picture is entitled Playing with Light and I am delighted to have been asked to post it. Please leave lots of comments letting my contributor what you have enjoyed about this image ? And don’t forget to click on the lips below to see who else is being sinful today ? PS if you would like to me to anonymously post a #SinfulSunday picture on your behalf let me know. I will do this once a month ?

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    #PlayingOutLive episode one – with @TabithaErotica 

    Life has been hectic recently but I just would like to celebrate our first in a series of monthly podcasts focusing on sexuality in all its myriad glories in a light hearted and sex positive way. The first one featured the lovely @TabithaErotica talking about her #30dayorgasmfun and its positive effect on her mood. Listen again here: https://www.spreaker.com/show/playing-out-live Join us on 20th April at 9.30pm (BST) for the next one. You can listen via Spreaker or your browser and join in with the chat via twitter, comments or even Skype in to join in the fun or add your opinion – contact @WatchingDistant, @mistress34F or @_Masterseye for techie help if…

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    #SinfulSunday – prep

    Warmer days are here bringing with them the desire to wear bare legs and expose my toes.  This means preparations have to start for them to look their best, so it’s off with the old, dark nail varnish and on with the new light colours. Off with hold ups and on with naked legs under lovely flippy summer dresses and skirts. I love summer, don’t you?? Click on the lips below to see who else is being sinful today

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    Curiosity killed the cat

    I am curious – I must be, my bio says so! At times this has got me into trouble; such as when I continued to open the Pandora’s Box of kink regardless of my husband’s desire to keep it jammed shut or when I have agreed to meet people that perhaps on reflection I would have been better not to have.  I tread a fine line between wanting to explore, valuing honesty and clarity and feeling the need to protect not only my own privacy but that of those I care about.  We all have our reasons for needing to guard some aspects of ourselves more closely than others and I…