• Me,  Words

    What’s wrong with her, she’s an old woman? And #CancelJaneyGodley

      This collage is comprised of the graffiti on the building opposite my house, the sign outside my house which is illuminated at night and a message sent via Facebook messenger to my youngest son.  The message was sent in September, I think the graffiti arrived in July or August this year. When I first saw the eye symbol I felt a chill.  It was too close to me.  I noticed the one on the sign outside my house the following day as I was coming back from shopping in town.  I posted my misgivings on twitter and people, quite rightly, said it was probably a coincidence, the name of…

  • #F4TFriday,  Moments,  Words

    #F4TFriday – Memories, Moments and Wanting More

    The Beach Boys are playing ‘God Only Knows, as I type this in front of a fire that I hefted the coal for into my car boot at the garage as He got soaked to the skin putting air in my sodden tyres to keep me safe.  In this cosy setting we paint us on a canvas bought for another purpose.  We paint over the existing brush strokes with our conversations, moving from twitter to plans, to work, to people we know, with ease and interest.  We lighten the shadows, highlight an obscured point of interest, deepen the darkest places until they glow again.  Sometimes we just hug on His…

  • Images,  Sinful Sunday

    SinfulSunday – ice, ice baby

    In my search for a good #ShowUsYourBaubles picture for last weeks #SinfulSunday I resorted to using some ice cubes to wake up my slightly sullen and definitely tiny nipples. I had forgotten how alive such sensory activities made me feel. I think you can see the effect it had on me in the bonus picture below. Consider it my Christmas present to you 😘 Don’t forget to click on the link below to see what other wonderful images have been posted this week 💋

  • Images,  Sinful Sunday

    SinfulSunday – #ShowUsYourBaubles

    My friend @blancogogo inspired this post with her #ShowUsYourBaubles hashtag on twitter. She also then gave me the opportunity to use ice cubes on my nipples to try to get them to stand out as they are usually small and pale. So thanks for the icy fun GG 💋 Don’t forget to click on the link below to see what other wonderful images have been posted this week.

  • Object Permanence,  Us,  Words

    Hey, it’s been a while

    How are we all doing? Things are good here. I thought I’d let you know how good and in what ways I counted it as such. What happiness feels like for me. It’s new, it’s startlingly easy, it’s bizarrely OK. He asks what did I expect, He always knew we were good together, and I feel sad sometimes, that my anxiety will knock that certainty in myself at times. But one of the things that is new is the injunction not to try to fix myself because of my perceived failings but to accept, love and honour my thoughts and feelings in all their glorious colours and shades. It’s the…