I was reminded the other day about the state known as subfrenzy. This is most notable in women who become aware of the concept of a D/s relationship, often via films or writings of some kind and then become obsessed with finding a Dom or getting their slightly bemused partner to Dominate them. This is often not accompanied by proper exploration or evaluation of the risks and benefits. Many people, and I include myself in that category, do not have a well functioning method of communication, understand the concept of consent or have good boundaries. Many are co-dependent and see D/s as a way to explain why they see themselves…
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SinfulSunday – baking bread
In common with any of us I am experimenting with baking bread whilst at home. An important part of this is the equipment required which in this case includes a pinny! Here’s an extra pic for this prompt week 💋 Take good care out there and check out the other great images posted this week by clicking the link below ❤
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SinfulSunday – bathtime
Nothing nicer than a restorative bath is there?
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Love in a time of Corona Virus – when your relationship is LDR or complicated
I don’t know about you but I am aware of tears not being far away most of the time. Outwardly I am doing OK, if a little distracted during my working day and finding it hard to concentrate and focus. But when you are self isolating that could be expected I think and in the main I am supported, my work is OK and my family well so far. So, why the tears? If I enquire more closely into my feelings I notice this sense of loss, and below that fear of more loss, layered over an uncertainty that I haven’t felt for a while. Generally my sense of being…
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#F4TFriday – oops we did it again!
You might have seen my twitter posts with #InAField as the tag over the last couple of years. Initially they were accompanied by pictures of our candlelabra as we ate in the evening. Most recently the pictures have included boots, tweed jackets and sometimes have even been taken from the back of a carriage as we have careered around a field. After a lifetime of not being sporty I find myself a competitor in a sport so far removed from my working class background that it makes me gasp. Think of Ben Hur, minus the wheel spurs obviously, and complete with a woman hanging onto the back of a carriage…
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SinfulSunday – good-bye 61
In most recent years Eroticon has co-incided with my birthday weekend and this has often allowed me the chance to take pictures in the hotels I stay in for the weekend. This always makes me excited because I love hotel bathrooms. The mirrors and the lighting afford endless opportunities for photos with repeating images and they always spark my creativity. Today is day before my 62nd birthday. I am viewing my body with a photographer’s eyes as I create this image. I am also viewing it internally with kinder eyes than I used to. I am noting what I like. I am noting that my body can give me and…
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SinfulSunday – silk and lace
A change in the season means an opportunity to wear my lovely lingerie on Sunday mornings. They make me feel feminine and that pushes me more into the sensual side of my nature. Spring is springing! 💚💛💚 Don’t forget to click on the link below to see what other wonderful images have been posted this week
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Eroticon 2020 virtual meet and greet
NAME (and Twitter if you have one) Hi I’m eye and on twitter I am @_Masterseye Tell us 3 things you are most looking forward to at Eroticon 2020 Being enthused and inspired by the speakers and the people I meet Catching up with people I know and love Meeting new people and getting to know them Sadly with a change of venue this year for the Friday night meet and greet we won’t be compiling a play list but I know that everyone enjoys that bit so…. What is a song that always makes you want to dance? OOH! This is hard, there are so many that I love…
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SinfulSunday – up close
A chilly day, a monkey puzzle tree and a grinning @Domwithadee created this picture for this month’s first picture. Don’t forget to click on the link below to see what other wonderful images are there this week 💋
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Regrets – I have a few, but then again …
How far do you go back? Before I was a woman, before I felt autonomous, before I was a mother, before I was a wife, before I knew, before I understood, before I could, before I knew I should, before when I thought I was loved, before I knew I was loved? I don’t know about you but regrets seem to come with a sense of responsibility and capability. If I look back I can only do it through the eyes of the person I am now. If I revisit places I feel I have fallen short, the ones where I have real regrets, I do it with a sense…
