• Moments,  Us

    Sometimes desire

    This used to be the only place we met. We lived apart, had separate lives, friends, and families. Now, most of our kids have met the other. The venn diagram of our friends has many more people in the centre. Our lives intersect in so many places without bleeding into each other so much that we don’t know where we both begin and end. We’re here, a hotel room in the afternoon, a bottle of champagne and some sushi down, chatting, snoozing and enjoying each other’s company. We’re intimate, close, and connected. It’s a gift neither of us take for granted. And, easy though it might be to hold what…

  • #F4TFriday,  #sexbloggersformentalhealth,  Words

    Under the same moon – a #F4tFriday post

    We spend most of our lives apart.  We live our days out going to work or sorting chores or household tasks at the weekend.  We see  separate friends separately.  We cook and eat at a hundred and ten miles distance.  I don’t help him to reach a difficult place to soap His back in the shower.  He doesn’t hold a coat open for me to put on a coat with ease.  Our kisses are infrequent, our hugs can be counted on the fingers of no hands most weeks, we rarely sleep with limbs entwined and yet I count this as my most intimate relationship ever. This wasn’t planned.  Our love…

  • Images,  Sinful Sunday

    SinfulSunday – close shave

    This week’s SinfulSunday is a photo taken during our holiday last week. I had asked Him, ‘how do you want me hairy or smooth’ He replied ‘smooth, and I will take take of it next week.’ Shaving. Such an intimate, caring act. He knows that smoothness heightens my sensitivity and makes it easier for me to orgasm but that I have to travel 30 miles to get it done well and don’t always have time before we meet. By saying He would take care of it He relieved me of the responsibility for pleasing Him and also set the scene for a very sensual intimate moment. A push onto the…