• Moments,  Words

    Go for a walk, then write about it

    I was reminded the other day about the state known as subfrenzy.  This is most notable in women who become aware of the concept of a D/s relationship, often via films or writings of some kind and then become obsessed with finding a Dom or getting their slightly bemused partner to Dominate them.  This is often not accompanied by proper exploration or evaluation of the risks and benefits.  Many people, and I include myself in that category, do not have a well functioning method of communication, understand the concept of consent or have good boundaries.  Many are co-dependent and see D/s as a way to explain why they see themselves…

  • Sinful Sunday

    #SinfulSunday – soft focus sub

    I am currently thinking about and documenting the areas of our shared life that has D/s running through it like an underground culvert. To be able to take care of Him in such an apparently innocent way reaffirms our dynamic beautifully and fits with the monthly prompt of soft focus in that it might not be clear what is happening at first sight. Don’t forget to click on the link below to see what other wonderful images have been posted this week